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Registered: 05-20-2009
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Thu, 05-28-2009 - 10:33pm

Hi all

How in the world do you tell a guy so as not to embarrass him that he has an unpleasant odor down below? I enjoy giving oral, but would enjoy it a hell of a lot more if my guy smelt better down there. It's a small stench that I wish wasn't there b/c it would make oral sex so much more enjoyable.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: shark447
Fri, 05-29-2009 - 7:46am

That would depend on if it was someone I've been with for


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Registered: 05-20-2009
In reply to: shark447
Fri, 05-29-2009 - 10:37pm
He's someone I just started sleeping with. So yea I guess I'll pull the "shower before sex" thing.
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Registered: 05-17-2008
In reply to: shark447
Sun, 05-31-2009 - 3:44pm

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
In reply to: shark447
Sun, 05-31-2009 - 7:46pm

Hi

We were both tested before we began sleeping together and fortunately are std free. I am certain the odor, stench, aroma, whatever the hell you want to call it is due to sweat. It's common in the genital area because it can get pretty warm there, as I'm sure you are aware. You are right when you suggest to talk to him about it. I will bring it up to him next time.

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Registered: 01-15-2008
In reply to: shark447
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 9:02am
I had that problem before, it came to a time where I couldn't take it anymore and I initiated the shower before sex, this makes the oral sex much more fun and enjoyable. Trust me, the stench makes oral sex unpleasant. So don't be afraid even if it's a new partner, just introduce shower before anything and soon you will enjoy oral.
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Registered: 03-06-2007
In reply to: shark447
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 12:08pm

Welcome shark447 to the Oral Board :)


Just like Tish mentioned, I would suggest we shower together beforehand :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2007
In reply to: shark447
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 12:09pm
Welcome to the Oral Board jlian :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-04-2004
In reply to: shark447
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 3:10pm
Out of curiosity, what if you guys get into oral and you're nowhere near the shower? I'd have the "odor talk" with him anyways, because the shower is just a temporary fix and you don't want to leave him clueless.

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Registered: 03-06-2007
In reply to: shark447
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 4:05pm
I agree Itai, oral just doesn't happen when you're around a shower or at least I wouldn't want it to revolve around him showering.

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Registered: 08-09-2007
In reply to: shark447
Thu, 06-04-2009 - 8:35am

>>Out of curiosity, what if you guys get into oral and you're nowhere near the shower? I'd have the "odor talk" with him anyways, because the shower is just a temporary fix and you don't want to leave him clueless.<<


That's an excellent question! When I was with my guy, there wasn't a day that went by that I didn't have my mouth implanted on his d*ck no matter where we were.



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