How to advise about odors, gently?

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How to advise about odors, gently?
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Sat, 09-20-2008 - 10:48am

Hi-


Any ideas on how to tell/hint the person has offensive odors? The last time, the guy had an anal odor and it was a turn off. If I think I am going to be in an oral position, I make sure I am clean in the perianal region. I do not want to be inpolite. Thanks!


Seachells

seachells

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Sat, 09-20-2008 - 11:40am
Was this the first time he had an odor?

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Sat, 09-20-2008 - 1:10pm

Thanks Tish-


I have thought of a shower. This is not the first time. I do not know if it is because I am with him after he comes home from work..he works in an office, therefore not physical. Maybe is should ask him to trim the hair, as I know hair harbors organisms. I hate to be so clinical :).


Seachells

seachells

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Sat, 09-20-2008 - 5:29pm

How long have the two of you been together?


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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 12:20pm

Welcome to the Oral Board Seachells :)

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Wed, 09-24-2008 - 2:29pm

Keep baby wipies in the bathroom & really stress how awesome they are for after poops. It took BF a little bit to accept the idea, but now he loves them too!


Otherwise, better to be a little impolite, instead of being uncomfortable yourself. Why should you have to deal with it, when he can just as easily wash his behind.


Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Wed, 09-24-2008 - 3:45pm

Thanks Tulips!-


I am ashamed to say, it was w/ an ex BF. And during our relationship it was usually not like that, but there were a

seachells

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Wed, 09-24-2008 - 4:25pm

Mmmm, but those were the dog wipies, not the person wipies. Did you keep the dog wipies in the bathroom? Next to the toilet? Or near dog things, because if I had dogs, I'd like to keep them seperate. I wouldn't want to touch my underarea with dog germs.


Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Wed, 09-24-2008 - 4:50pm

Hi Tulips!


AS far as the baby wipes, I have them for the dogs. They are human ones, but I did not have them in the bathroom. In the future, I will place them there!


As far as showing him what I liked...I advised him he was doing it too hard, and it was very intense, and hurt. So I took the palm of his hand and started to lightly lick his palm, showing him I hardly need any pressure at all in the beginning. I told him & showed him many times, but it never got through! AS far as the biting, maybe it was what his ex liked! Next time I will know better. Thanks!

seachells

seachells

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Thu, 09-25-2008 - 10:45am

He sounds like a slow learner. Good luck with the search & I hope you post with us in the meantime.


Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha