How To Be Comfortable & Enjoy Oral Sex?

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Registered: 05-24-2005
How To Be Comfortable & Enjoy Oral Sex?
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Wed, 07-08-2009 - 10:00pm
My friend has been married for 7-yrs. and told me that she has never masturbated and has never orgasm from oral sex.She isn't comfortable having her hubby perform oral on her and says she is always wondering if he is only doing it for her and not really enjoying it himself.He told her he does enjoy it.I told her she is really missing out and I want to buy her a book that will help her get in touch with and become comfortable with her body and hopefully lead to her being able to reach orgasm through masturbation alone,and subsequently orgasms through him performing oral on her.She is 27....Any book advice,info. will be greatly appreciated,thanks so much in advance!
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Registered: 06-10-2009
Thu, 07-09-2009 - 12:19am

I have masturbated since I was a pre-teen, when my urge to 'scratch an itch' led me down the path to self-pleasuring, so I have not had occasion to read the following, but your friend may find them helpful:


Becoming Orgasmic: A Sexual and Personal Growth Program for Women
by Julia Heiman, Joseph, Ph.D. LoPiccolo, and David Palladini

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Thu, 07-09-2009 - 11:18am

Welcome stayinhealthy2005 to the Oral Board :)


Cdngirl gave you some wonderful books to share with your friend.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 07-10-2009 - 10:26am
If she doesn't want to spend lots of money on books, how about referring her to http://www.the-clitoris.com/. It is filled with lots of great information.


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