How did he ask you?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2004
How did he ask you?
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Fri, 01-21-2011 - 3:08pm

Do you remember when you were first going out with your SO and they asked you go go down on them?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 8:48pm

I have limited experience cause I was married for so long but my first bf just kind of taught me how and after that never had to ask, I wanted to.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-10-2006
Sat, 02-26-2011 - 1:04am

They've never had to ask; with my husband (and previous boyfriends) I just wanted to be close, loved having his full attention, and wanted him in my mouth. The only thing is that if he's tired and I'm not likely to get more than one round out of him, I'll go for IC so that I can come too... I rarely come from oral on me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2008
Thu, 02-17-2011 - 3:01am
In most cases, the guy doesn't specifically ask to receive oral sex. One thing just leads to another. Some times while making out, a guy will place the girls hand over an erection in his pants.... that is a clue that he is ready for the next step.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2008
Mon, 01-24-2011 - 7:48pm

Fortunately, for us, he got over that hang-up very quickly.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2004
Mon, 01-24-2011 - 11:50am
That sounds in a way like my situation. My wife doesn't like me to go down on her even though I really like to do it. She doesn't think I should want to but I do. But even though we've talked about it numerous times, she still doesn't like me to go there.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2008
Mon, 01-24-2011 - 12:08am