How long till he cums?

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Registered: 01-24-2007
How long till he cums?
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Thu, 06-04-2009 - 7:03pm

Hi Ladies

I am feeling somewhat inadequate and have a question. Typically, how long does it take your guy to cum during oral? My guy is usually 10+ minutes and I read on a men's message board that if he doesn't come in just a few minutes (like 3) that you aren't doing a good job!

My bf tells me I'm doing a good job- he also tends to last long with intercourse also, which I love. So I am not sure if he's just trained himself to hold off, or if Im not adept enough at oral.

Can you give me some average times this shoudl last- and he's hard when I start if that information helps

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 06-04-2009 - 8:52pm

There is no average time, all guys are different and respond differently to different kinds of sex.


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Registered: 03-30-2000
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 7:18am

For me, oral is wonderful, next best thing to IC, but it's just a little less intense, which for me is great because it *does* let me last longer and "enjoy the ride" a bit more.

If your man lasts a while during IC, you should expect a bit longer for oral as well for that reason.

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Registered: 04-02-2009
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 2:03pm
I'm the exact opposite.
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Registered: 03-28-2008
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 9:17pm

It really varies for me too.

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Mon, 06-08-2009 - 11:39am

Welcome to the Oral Board lovegrl18 :)


There is no time set on when a guy will respond.

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Mon, 06-08-2009 - 11:41am
Welcome to the Oral Board royalfarmer :)

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Mon, 06-08-2009 - 11:44am

Welcome to the Oral Board patliputra :)


>it all depends upon how cuttie u r.

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Registered: 01-17-2005
Mon, 06-08-2009 - 4:50pm

You need to believe the compliments you receive from your man because times and intensity and reactions all vary.


I think I have given my fair share of BJs and the results are all different. I've had guys who barely lasted beyond my lips on their members. Other guys moaned and groaned and said it was the best, but released nothing after 20 minutes of hardcore sucking action.


The most important thing is what your guy feels and how you feel about it. Sometimes it could just be a mood setter, other times it may be the end of a great evening.


Just do your best and enjoy the moment, the passion, and the experience.


hugs,


Amber

Hugs from Amber

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Registered: 03-24-2009
Tue, 06-09-2009 - 1:04pm

I have had guys finish before my lips touch the head.

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Tue, 06-09-2009 - 2:42pm
Amber, thanks for sharing :)

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