I AM ALWAYS SCARED!

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Registered: 08-18-2004
I AM ALWAYS SCARED!
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Thu, 08-19-2004 - 4:08pm
I am always scared I am doing it wrong! I know he likes it - he says he does - but I just get scared and insecure when I am going down on him! How do I get over that?

The other problem...he is very wide and it hurts my jaw after about a minute or two! :( Any suggestions for that?

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Registered: 08-18-2004
Thu, 08-19-2004 - 4:43pm
As far as the jaw thing, i know what you mean, my bf is wide too. When my jaw starts to hurt or get tired i alternate between sucking and doing little licks with my toungue or kissing his head. he likes it when i kiss him, just a suggestion. Good luck!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 08-19-2004 - 4:58pm

If he says he likes it, then he likes it and you shouldn't worry about it or be insecure about it.


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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sun, 08-22-2004 - 7:57pm
have confidence in yourself. If he says that you are doing a good job, then you;re doing a good job.

Using your hands a lot is all part of a good BJ, so just alternate taking him deep into your mouth with sucking and licking the head and 'pumping' up and down the shaft with a free hand. Just use a firm grip and keep your hand well lubricated with lots of saliva.

Three variations: as she is sliding her fist up and down, she twists back and forwards in a corkscrew motion too. Very nice.

The second is that she just makes long firm licks with her tongue from the base of the penis up to the head, and repeats.

The third is that when she wants to give her jaw a rest, she uses both hands and makes sure I'm very lubricated and strokes her fist right from the tip of the penis down to the base. She then does the same with her other hand, makes a fist and slides my penis through it all the way down. Repeat with the first hand. Kinda like stroking a cat's back with both hands. :-)

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Registered: 03-25-2004
Mon, 08-23-2004 - 2:57am

I'm not sure how you can get over it except for maybe keep telling yourself...he tells me he likes it...so I must be doing a good job...right!!!

Cali

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Registered: 08-21-2004
Mon, 08-23-2004 - 10:02am
If he says that he likes it then I'm sure he does so don't worry about it. They'll tell you when you're doing something they don't like.

As for your mouth getting sore, what everyone else suggested was good. Start stroking his member with your hands giving him a hand job and then when you're mouth is feeling better lick and suck on the head for a while and then take him full into your mouth again. Just alternate between a hand job and licking and sucking.