Kissing Your Partner After Going Down On Her

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Registered: 06-25-2004
Kissing Your Partner After Going Down On Her
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Sun, 01-30-2011 - 7:17pm

Hi Everyone,

I know that it's been a long while since I have been on or posted anything.The reason that I am here now is that I have a question for the women here,But let me tell you alittle about my problem first.

I am now seeing someone new and has been for awhile now,anyway we had been seeing eachother for about 2 months before we started sleeping together.The sex is TOTALLY AWESOME! The only problem that we are having is:everytime I try to kiss her after I have gone down on her,she won't kiss me.She tells me that it's gross,because she can smell herself on me.Now she kisses me after she has gone down on me and even after we has had intercourse and I have cum inside of her.How can I convence her and get her to see

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Registered: 01-23-2010
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 2:28am
I personally have never had a problem with it. I find it strange that she does, unless maybe your face is completely covered in it, then the slimyness might be a slight turn off.
Does she masturbate? From years of self pleasure, I gained intimate knowledge of what I looked like, smelled like, and even tasted like. I figure, it's me, so why not?
If she is weird about masturbating that could explain why she's weird about her own scent and juices. That may be something she could become more comfortable with if she tried to get more "in touch" with herself, or it might never change.
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Registered: 06-25-2004
Mon, 01-31-2011 - 9:59pm

I don't know if she mastrubates or have even mastrubated before.I do know that she touches herself,because she held herself open a couple times while I was going down on her and she giudes me in her everytime when it's time for me to put it in.I don't see anything wrong with any woman's scent down there,not unless it's when a woman has some type infection down there.Women scent and wettness is one of my biggest turnons about them when it comes to sex.

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Registered: 05-29-2012
Wed, 08-08-2012 - 12:52pm
This is not a problem with me and my SO, but I can understand the reluctance a woman may have with this. They may have religious hangups or just find it gross. I think collard greens are gross and won't even let them touch my plate...other people just love them. Personal preference.
If this is the biggest problem you have, be happy.
I have a large beard and mustache so when I go down on my SO I get a lot all over my face and beard. I think of it as my "now and later bar" I get to enjoy the smell and taste all night.