oral frustration

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2008
oral frustration
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Tue, 02-08-2011 - 4:36pm

My SO will not have oral sex (give or receive) and I have been very frustrated about this. I have begged! But no chance. Don't know what to do! Apart from that: we have a great marriage and wonderful kids. That's why I have never been with another woman (still frustrated though). Any feedback?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 02-09-2011 - 7:40am

Has she told you why she doesn't like it? How long have you been together?



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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 3:46pm

Have you asked her WHY?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2011
Fri, 03-18-2011 - 4:52am

I'm in the same boat.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Fri, 03-18-2011 - 8:55am

I'm sorry that you're feeling frustrated!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 03-18-2011 - 9:00am

Can't help you with her not liking oral. As for the no sex issue, have you suggested seeing a couples therapist? May I ask how old the two of you are? What was sex like before?



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