Oral Sex as foreplay?

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Oral Sex as foreplay?
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Wed, 05-06-2009 - 2:01pm
My DB loves for me to give him oral sex as a way of getting him in the mood. I love giving him head but the problem is he'll keep me down there all night if I let him. It's frustrating because sometimes I don't want to go down on him and would like for him to take time to get me in the mood first whether it be kissing, or giving my breast some attention. He goes from me giving him head to sticking it in. He may give me some attention once it's in, but I like to have the foreplay to make me want him more before penetration. He's the only guy I've been with that approaches sex this way. And this is ALL the time. If I don't go down on him first we usually don't have sex at all. We were talking about initiating sex and he told me he needs MORE oral sex. I'm not sure if I can give him any more without feeling some resentment. I'm not sure what to do. Any suggestions?

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Wed, 05-06-2009 - 2:22pm

Welcome to the Oral Board mystifying1 :)


I think that is great that you give your SO oral to get him in the mood, but ... he needs to know that you need foreplay and attention to get you in the mood.

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Registered: 07-04-2004
Wed, 05-06-2009 - 5:00pm
And if he does turn out to just be selfish, then next time you're done going down on him, demand your turn (but do it kind of role-playing like, so it doesn't ruin the mood).

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Registered: 03-11-2005
Thu, 05-07-2009 - 5:09am
Our foreplay consists of oral and mutual masturbation while watching an explicit sex DVD. DW will use a realistic dildo while she gives me oral. Sometimes we both cum from what was just supposed to be foreplay.