Oral Sex : Women on their knees?

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Oral Sex : Women on their knees?
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Mon, 11-13-2006 - 3:38pm

Here are my questions. First for the men. If you are getting oral from your lady, do you have a preference as to how she does it? Specifically, what I'm asking is it more exciting and erotic for you if she's on her knees performing oral on you, laying in bed doing it to you, or does it matter either way? Also if you do like her on her knees while performing oral, do you prefer standing or sitting in a chair?

Now for the women. How do you prefer to perform oral on your man, on your knees or laying in bed? If you do prefer being on your knees, do you like your guy to be standing or sitting down?

My personal preference with my boyfriend is to have him standing while I perform oral on him. I like the submissiveness of it, and I'm know I'll probably hear from some women that think it's degrading. But my response to that is that when you're in love and with your man, that's not degrading to me because it's giving him and me pleasure. Yes, many would say that he holds all the power because I'm on my knees doing it, but I would counter that I have power too because I have his member in my mouth, so I think the power is on both sides. I also enjoy being able to fondle his butt while I'm performing oral, and looking up at him while I'm doing it. Don't get me wrong, I love performing oral on him in bed too, but I get the most pleasure from it being on my knees doing it to him.

Please give me your feedback, both men and women.

marissa624

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Registered: 07-20-2006
Mon, 11-13-2006 - 3:52pm
I love giving oral pleasure in the 69 position. Nothing like the view. I also ache for my SO to squat over me and lower herself onto my waiting face and tongue.
HG
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Registered: 04-09-2003
Mon, 11-13-2006 - 5:04pm
I especially like standing up in front of our full-length mirror with her on her knees. I love watching her (seeing her bum) while she works her magic, and I can look down and lock eyes with her just before I explode.
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Registered: 07-21-2004
Mon, 11-13-2006 - 5:18pm

I love that suggestion. We have mirrors in our bedroom, but no full length ones. We will be buying one shortly though! Thanks for the idea!

Sincerely,

Marissa :)

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Registered: 11-01-2006
Mon, 11-13-2006 - 5:48pm
It usually happens laying down, but I prefer him standing with me on my knees because it doesn't hurt my neck as much. It takes him forever to get off from oral and I sometimes have to give up. When I'm not sore I feel a whole hell of a lot sexier!
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Registered: 08-02-2004
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 1:41am

I like a bj no matter what position a woman gets in but i agree with you that there is something very sexy/submissive about a woman kissing me and then slowly going to her knees, unzipping my pants and pulling out my member or having us both naked but she is on her knees while I'm standing in front of her.

What I also like is if a woman does it in front of a mirror so I can look at the mirror or in front of a glass door with the chance of someone seeing her.

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Registered: 11-14-2006
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 1:26pm

Hi, Marissa,

My response is related to another recent post (on "teasing"). I just mention this because you might want to look at the comments there too. My SO and I are very much into teasing one another during oral. When she gives me oral, being on her knees except for a part of the time doesn't work. I prefer her to be on her on her knees with me standing when I cum. She prefers it that way too. But this is usually after A LOT of playing in bed. The mirror thing wouldn't do much for us. We are eye contact people during everything we do in our bedroom (and environs). I can't imagine breaking eye contact with her to look in a mirror. (BTW, if you don't do this with your lover, try looking into his eyes when he orgasms and vice versa. It is special beyond words.)

You clearly stated that you have minimal concern about how you feel about some women judging other women for what THEY feel is demeaning. Right on. I just don't think it's worth your having thought of at all.

rog.

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Registered: 07-17-2006
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 4:12pm
I love it any way but my fav i son my knees with him in hot recliner (no Foot rest)a bit back so I can attend to his "boys" & his Anus in addition to his penis. MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!
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Registered: 07-03-2006
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 5:21pm
My first choice for best oral was while sitting down in my chair at work. By scooting to the edge of the chair allowed her to tea bag me, and give me anal play with her finger.

 


 


 


 


 

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Registered: 01-04-2004
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 8:04pm

Marissa,
First of all I hope your man knows how lucky he is.

Because I cannot think of anything much sexier than a woman on her knees giving her man oral while he is standing in front of her. And as you said "looking up at him while doing it." HOT HOT HOT!

I think it is definitely submissive but not at all degrading. It would be degrading if you were being forced - and not in a playful or role playing way.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being dominant or submissive with your sexual partner. Some people - both men and women - like it one way or the other and some like to trade off and do both.

The other side of the coin is a woman sitting on the face of her man and telling him to "eat it." And I don't think that is at all degrading - submissive yes - degrading no! Just another way to share sexual pleasure and fun.

tbuck

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 11-15-2006 - 7:32am

Dh and I both love a lot of variety so I wouldn't say there's a preference for positions.


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