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Registered: 01-05-2009

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4	Wed, 07-29-2009 - 11:28pm

my husband loves oral sex but he loves it better when i go down real far on him....problem is....i gag. is there any way i can overcome this? is there a trick to doing it towards i wont gag?

also i love him being rough, almost abusive but not quite, and i encourage it so he'll say things when we dirty talk (he is in the navy in another state) like he'll force me to deep throat him, and that turns me on and i would love for him to do that but im afraid if he does ill gag or worse, actually throw up...and i dont want that to happen.

please tell me i can be saved and there is hope for me!

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cdngirl2009

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Registered: 06-10-2009

In reply to: stachia_mommy2b

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Thu, 07-30-2009 - 1:20am

Everyone gags.....it's a natural, life-saving reflex. Sometimes I wish that hetero men would

sophhh

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Registered: 07-19-2009

In reply to: stachia_mommy2b

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Thu, 07-30-2009 - 5:22am

I accidentally deep throat. When I feel myself gag I swallow the syliva and it stops. I can only do this when I'm going straight down and not at an angle (like laying my head on his stomach). I also find holding the base of his penis a good way to stop me from gagging. I'll go as far as I can and will just gently pull the base downwards and this stops me gagging but deep throats him at the same time.

Hope this helps :]

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Sophhh