Should I try it now or not???

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Registered: 08-21-2007
Should I try it now or not???
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Mon, 07-28-2008 - 2:08pm
Okay so, my boyfriend and I were joking around at lunch and he just kind of threw out in a joking manner because we were joking about sexual stuff that I don't like to have his (excuse my language =)) cum in my mouth much less swallow, which I guess is sort of true. And I thought he said that in a joking way to kind of tell me hey, I would like you to do this...and then when I did ask about it, he got kind of mad. My point was that I guess I never really thought of that bothering him that much but if it did then I would like for him to be able to say... ya know, hey I would like for you to do this...but then he was like no I wasn't saying that because its something I think about or wish you did...and I wouldn't want you to just start doing it because I will feel like your only doing it because of this conversation and it wouldn't be natural...so now I'm kind of stuck. I mean it's not a huge deal..we do pretty much everything else but I guess it kind of bothers me that now if I did do it, he might think it would be fake or just doing it for him because of us talking about it. I really have no problem doing it, I've just never been a big fan of it...I dunno. I guess what I'm asking is, should I not do it b/c if I do now he will think it's put on or should I do it because obviously he does want me to?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 3:28pm

No problem about your language.


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Registered: 02-06-2007
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 6:53pm

It sounds like there is some overanalyzing going on.

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Tue, 07-29-2008 - 4:27pm

Welcome to the Oral Board Lexiebmax :)


Try to openly communicate with your bf outside of the bedroom in regards to your sexual wants, needs and desires.