To swallow or not to swallow

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Registered: 06-25-2009
To swallow or not to swallow
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Thu, 06-25-2009 - 9:41pm
My partner loves when I give him oral sex - but he wants me to either spit or swallow. I have issues with it, is there anything I can do to overcome that because I would love to give him the full pleasre he gets from that.

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Registered: 12-07-2006
Thu, 06-25-2009 - 10:43pm

First of all just relax and enjoy what you're doing.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 06-26-2009 - 6:39am

Is it the taste you have issues with, the texture, the thought of what's going in your mouth?


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Registered: 08-28-1998
Fri, 06-26-2009 - 2:34pm

Lauren,

Bless you.

The world would certainly be a better place is every woman followed your advice. Imagine a world were every man walks around with a content smile on his face. You could end wars, famine... A world utopia.

Paul

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Mon, 06-29-2009 - 12:28pm

Welcome to the Oral board butterflykisses :)


How have you made out with giving oral to your SO?

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Registered: 06-25-2009
Mon, 06-29-2009 - 7:09pm
Well it went okay. I can't say I'm a big fan of having him cum inside my mouth. I don't mind giving the bj but I much prefer his cuming outside. Yes its the taste I don't care..maybe if they ever make something to help with that...hey I'll be all game :) Thanks so much for all the advice :)
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Mon, 06-29-2009 - 7:33pm
You could try something different that might be an acceptable compromise. As he begins to cum, if you tense your throat and mouth muscles and make a big "O" shape you'll be able to close the back of your mouth so that the cum doesn't go very far into your mouth (you won't be able to fit much of his penis in your mouth either, maybe just the head). It's sort-of what you'd do naturally if someone tried to force you to drink something that you didn't want to. Let the cum dribble out around the sides. Use your hand on his shaft to give him the stimulation as he cums. By doing this you don't really taste it and it doesn't squirt into the back of your throat making you choke or retch.
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Registered: 03-06-2007
Tue, 06-30-2009 - 12:06pm

You're more then welcome and good luck with trying to get used to the taste or just letting it drip out of your mouth :)

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Tue, 06-30-2009 - 12:10pm
Welcome to the Oral Board Westridge2001 :)

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Registered: 06-15-2009
Wed, 07-01-2009 - 1:54am
I've always felt that giving a blowjob means making the guys cum in my mouth and me then swallowing the cum. I've never done it any other way. I've never had a problem with cum, not even my first time. But I've heard from some of my friends who at first didn't like it so much, that it's something you can get used to the more you do it ;)
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Registered: 05-08-2003
Wed, 07-01-2009 - 9:15am

Hi Yah !!


I always give a BJ to my partner, and make him cum in my mouth. I love swallowing and when I do that the expressions on my partners face are just awesum !! I have tested the cum of many guys and taste really didnt matter. Its the fun after BJ that lasts long !!!


So my advise to all is, go for it, the sex after BJ will last much longer and thats what we all crave for isnt it?!


cheers .... annie

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