Tips for giving good blowjob

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Registered: 02-24-2007
Tips for giving good blowjob
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Tue, 02-01-2011 - 12:07pm
I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 6 months. He really enjoys getting head and I dont mind giving it, but I don't love it. He seems to like when I do it, but I am jut looking for some tips. I'm still a little shy in bed (self conscious over my body) but I want to really pleasure him. He has told me that no girl has ever made him cum from oral or a handjob. What we usually do is I give him head/handjob then he takes over for a minute or two, then when he is there I take over and finish him off.
We haven't really done that In a long time though (normally we just have sex after oral and he has no problem cumming then). But in the case where sex is not on the menu for the night I really want to pleasure him. Thanks in advance for any tips!
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Registered: 12-05-2006
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 2:21pm

If he has decent stamina, you may have to go at it for some time as a woman never quite equals the "ideal" physical stimulation that a man

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Registered: 02-24-2007
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 3:27pm
I am not so concerned with me not being able to make him cum during oral because I enjoy seeing him taking over and doing exactly what he likes, then finishing him off. I guess I am more looking for just general tips on how to improve my skills. He seems to enjoy what I do now but I feel like I could do more. I know all guys are different and don't all like the same things, but what are some good go tos?
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Registered: 12-05-2006
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 3:39pm

Number one by FAR for me is knowing that she wants to be doing it. We straight guys

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Registered: 02-24-2007
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 3:57pm
I mean is a combo of mouth & hands something to use? About how long should i stay down there? As bad as it may sound i get kind of bored. I think I need to be more excited about doing it than I am now. I mean i think i seem into it but he could be thinking something completely different. I usually do it once a week but I know he would like it more.
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Registered: 12-05-2006
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 4:07pm

There are plenty of good articles on technique out there.

I love her hands roaming all over the place... where ever they can reach in fact but especially nipples, thighs, butt, balls and of course, the cock.

Deep throating, despite what others say, is more than just for effect. The combined physical and mental state, for me,

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Registered: 02-24-2007
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 4:19pm
I will try more eye contact and roaming his body with my hands more than I do now. Thanks for your help! :) I may just have to google a goo article or two on technique.
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Registered: 12-05-2006
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 4:21pm

You bet and don't forget to enjoy the journey to your final destination.

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Registered: 02-06-2007
Tue, 02-01-2011 - 5:48pm

I agree with what Glenn said.

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Registered: 05-14-2010
Wed, 02-02-2011 - 12:59pm

There is nothing wrong with him taking over to help out in the work! It saves you wear and tear and gets him off faster.

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Registered: 12-05-2006
Wed, 02-02-2011 - 1:44pm

It amazes me how different every relationship is when it comes to bj's.

My gf is so proud of her oral skills that she won't use her hands on my cock other than a light touch, holding it in place, repositioning, etc. I have to admit that it is the best head that I have ever experienced and the climax feels so overdue? by the time it comes that I "should" be embarrassed at my response via those that over hear us... but I'm not.