unpleasant oral sex

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Registered: 05-23-2009
unpleasant oral sex
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Sat, 05-23-2009 - 11:25am
Receving oral sex was very pleasant for me. I just had a baby through c-section and since the birth of my baby i have found out that receiving oral sex is just unpleasant and uncomfortable. I hate the idea of receiving oral sex and i just don't know why? can anyone please help me?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 05-23-2009 - 8:01pm

How do you mean uncomfortable, unpleasant, is it physically uncomfortable or mentally uncomfortable?


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Registered: 05-23-2009
Sun, 05-24-2009 - 9:04am
physically i feel weird, it tingles (very sensitive on that area but not pain) rather than giving pleasure, mentally i dont have any problem just the fact that i dont feel comfortable when he does it.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 05-24-2009 - 9:46am

It could be because of the hormone changes due to pregnancy and then giving birth.


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Registered: 05-23-2009
Sun, 05-24-2009 - 7:08pm

Thank you very much for your answer, it helped me a lot to understand maybe why i'm feeling this way. I have been really unhappy with this situation because I never had this problem before and i was questioning myself trying to find a common sense answer and you help me a lot with your words. I will talk with him about another way of approaching oral sex and see if it works.

Thank you =)

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 05-24-2009 - 8:17pm

Good luck and let us know if you find something that works for you.


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Registered: 03-06-2007
Mon, 05-25-2009 - 11:15am

Welcome to the Oral Board latingirlx3 :)


Tish gave you some great advice & help.

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Registered: 05-23-2009
Mon, 05-25-2009 - 3:11pm
Thank you =) I will follow her advise, I haven't try it yet but i did talked to my husband and we will be trying soon and see if it works. I never thought a pregnancy or giving birth could affect sexual relationships, now i see that is very common according to other women. I will let you guys know what happens =)
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Registered: 05-23-2009
Mon, 05-25-2009 - 3:14pm
Thank you for your advise, i just talked to my husband about it and we are going to try doing it different. I will see if it works and i will let you know if it worked or not. Thank you!!!!
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Registered: 03-06-2007
Mon, 05-25-2009 - 3:16pm
>I never thought a pregnancy or giving birth could affect sexual relationships, Oh it can and does as you just found out.

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Registered: 05-23-2009
Tue, 05-26-2009 - 5:55pm

Hello,

I tried it last night and it worked. I still don't feel as confident as I used to but with time and practice I think it will come to normal. I'm happy because at least we both felt different about me receiving oral sex. =)

Thank youuuuuu

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