What's going wrong

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2011
What's going wrong
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Thu, 06-02-2011 - 7:05pm

I'm always hearing how wonderful oral sex is, so what I want to know is why I find no pleasure in it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2007
Fri, 06-03-2011 - 2:26pm

Does he know what the clitoris is?

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2011
Fri, 06-03-2011 - 10:03pm

Yes we know where my clit is. My DH can stimulate me to orgasm just fine manually, but when he goes in orally, I literally feel nothing. I get more from breeze up my skirt. I usually ask to move on to something else out of boredom.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Sat, 06-04-2011 - 2:22pm

Have you suggested harder, softer, to the left, to the right?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2006
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 5:26pm

Everybody is wired different and after experimenting in every way that you can think of, it's best to accept what is and isn't possible for you.

My gf enjoys receiving

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2007
Wed, 06-15-2011 - 10:06am

Awwww

Do you tuck her in with a Baba & a wubbie also

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2011
Thu, 06-16-2011 - 2:22am

I guess I just don't like settling.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2006
Thu, 06-16-2011 - 12:33pm

Very funny and what's a wubbie?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2006
Thu, 06-16-2011 - 12:36pm

I think there's a huge difference b/t settling and accepting.

Settling comes before you have tried everything and accepting comes after.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Tue, 06-21-2011 - 10:19pm

Relax and just enjoy the feelings you have while he is working.