When and where was the first time he went "south"

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When and where was the first time he went "south"
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Sun, 09-29-2013 - 10:51am

When and where was the first time a man went "south" on you? Guys, feel free to describe the first time you did this for a lady.

I'll go first.....

I was 17 and my bf and I were at a barbeque at his parent's house. We decided to sneak away and went in one of the upstairs bathrooms. We started kissing and I slowly kneeled in front of him so I could give him a bj. After pleasuring him, I stood up and to my surprise, he lowered himself in front of me, lifted the hem of my skirt, lowered my panties and proceeded to pleasure me. I still remember how magical his tongue was :) When we rejoined the friends and family in the yard, we couldn't wipe the smiles off our faces. For the rest of the day I was paranoid that my bf's Mom knew what happened and I swear she kept looking at me. Anyway, that was a special day in my life that I will never forget.

OK, who's next??

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  I was still in high school.  My boyfriend and I were at his house doing homework and hanging out.  His mom left on a date and we were alone.  We started kissing and making out which progressed further than we had gone before I gave my first and he received his first BJ.  After that he went down on me.  It took a little bit to figure out what to do, but once we did it was incredible.  

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My first time was in a 69...her on top....needless to say it was hard for me to concentrate...She "won"....then she stayed on my face until she came...after that I saw how much she liked it I developed a technique...that was in tune with her body/needs.... I loved it and still enjoy going south!!!

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Karen, kinda how this "went down" for many of us (probably) - in high school or college, at a party, when the parents left :)
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Dan, thanks for sharing - nice to hear from a guy's perspective :)
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Wow, this is a fun memory! I was 16, she was 17. We worked together at a country club restauraunt, it was a Sun night and we had hooked up the previous Sun nights after work but nothing too serious, some fingring and hj's. We then discovered that we had access to showers in a locker room that was rarely in use during the week, let alone on a Sun night at 10 or 11pm. So, we went for it!. She gave me my first bj, for about 1 minute, LOL, and I was beyond excited to finally be able to go down on a girl. We proceeded to have a lot of firsts together! 1st in a car, many times. 1st hotel . 1st 3some! Our group of friends was pretty heavily into getting high, and we had a way to get hotel rooms easily. One night we were high and in our own room which was connected to another room where people were partying. A friend of mine came in while I was doing her from behind and said something to the effect that he was jealous. I basically said it was fine with me if he joined in, and she was very into it. By that point we were 18 and 19, and our friend was 22.

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Registered: 10-14-2013

I remember this well -- 

It was a youth group camp.out. Me and a boy went to a tent to make out. One thing led to another and soon I gave him a BJ. He then pushed me on may back and started going at it.  Since it was my first time, i really didn't know what to expect. After a few awkward minuts, I realxed and experienced  an orgasm.  I appolgozed to him and ran back to my tent!

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Registered: 11-01-2013

I really can't remember but she asked me to go down on her and all I can remember was that she was mega hairy and she didn't enjoy it.  Said I was pretty useless at it and asked me if it was my first time.  I said yes and she gave me some tips on how to do it better.  Said it was like itching a back, you had to know where to itch for it to work and not just to move my tongue all around licking it like crazy.

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Kimmler - great sex is like anything else - practice makes perfect. I have been with a guy or 2 who were lacking experience and by offering a little encouragement and instruction, our lovemaking became wonderful and was tailored to our needs. Lol - "like itching a back" :)
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Registered: 10-23-2003
Boy. That wasn't a problem with me. I was very young (14 or so) and I was with a girl who obviously had more experience then me. We had been naked together and I had fingered her a few times but one day when I was kissing her nipples and belly button she kept on pushing my head down there. I had never smelled it before or been this close. By the time I had gotten my tongue into the right place she was already starting to pulsate. Something I will never forget. I was very disappointed when she came and pushed me off. Didn't take long before I had a second try.