Which do you prefer?

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Registered: 08-02-2004
Which do you prefer?
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Mon, 01-17-2011 - 10:55am

When it comes to oral sex for a guy there is two different things you can do.....the woman can take control and do a bj or the guy can take control and move his penis in and out of the woman's mouth while the woman stays more stationary.

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Mon, 01-17-2011 - 1:34pm

women probably like to be in more control because

Yes, but not for the reason you give

I like to be in control, because I'm Giving the BJ. So I want to decide the pace & everything. If he wants to be in control, then he can go down on me.

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 01-26-2009
Mon, 01-17-2011 - 1:39pm

If I've got a woman down on me then a big part of the turn on is that she's in charge and in control of how she's working it. One woman I was with before was amazing at giving BJ's. It was so good that there were times when I was practically parylized and couldn't even lift my head up to watch her do what she was doing.

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Registered: 11-15-2009
Mon, 01-17-2011 - 4:11pm
I usually prefer for my wife to be in control since she gives those paralyzing blow jobs jdubs is talking about. Unless of course we are rolePlaying a dominant scenario then I control the action
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Registered: 01-23-2010
Mon, 01-17-2011 - 10:10pm
I do both, but I prefer being in control.
It is harder to enjoy him in my mouth when I'm struggling to breath and control my gag reflex.
I let him do it sometimes (I wouldn't turn him down), but it's more enjoyable for me the other way, and I suspect it's more pleasureable for him also if I'm in control, because then I can spice things up more with my hands and tongue. It's impossible to use my tongue the way I usually do when I'm trying so hard not to choke.
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Registered: 01-27-2011
Thu, 01-27-2011 - 12:12am
I do both...

I like to be in control mostly, but my husband has taken contrl and it was equally exciting for both of us...
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Registered: 07-20-2010
Tue, 02-08-2011 - 2:00pm

I like to do both, but really enjoy getting on my kneels while he is standing, taking him in my mouth and letting him do the pumping in and out of my mouth.

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Registered: 03-04-2009
Wed, 02-09-2011 - 9:36am
I like it both ways and have never tried on my hands and knees while he stands and pumps, but it sounds great. Will try tonight when he gets home. Thank You
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Registered: 07-20-2010
Wed, 02-09-2011 - 11:26am
It is really great! DH holds onto my head while he's pumping in and out and when he cums, oh man!! Let us know how it goes!
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Registered: 03-04-2009
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 8:48am
When it comes to oral every way is wonderful. Can't say i like one more then another as all ways are very satisfing
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Registered: 07-13-2008
Thu, 02-17-2011 - 2:20am

It never hurts to tell the guy how you like it.

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