Which do you Prefer

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Which do you Prefer
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Mon, 05-20-2013 - 1:18pm

For women:

If you give oral sex to a man, which position would you rather be in?  Do you like getting on you knees?  On a bed?  

For men:

When getting oral from a woman, which position would you  like for her to be in?  Do you want her on her knees or be in another position?

For me:  

I like either on knees or in bed.  There is something sexy about a woman getting on her knees and giving oral as foreplay to something yet to come.  

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Registered: 05-21-2013
Tue, 05-21-2013 - 12:10pm

As a woman, it totally depends on the situation. Foreplay on my knees letting my man know that I am his to enjoy and I will suck and kiss him as long as he wants...he always enjoys that. If we're already in action...any way I can get to him works...him on his back, him over me feeding me.

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Registered: 05-18-2008
Thu, 05-23-2013 - 11:45pm

I go through phases.  Lately I have been having him sit on the edge of the bed and kneel or sit on my heels on the floor.  He loves it when I give him oral on my knees with him standing, but we do it with him lying on his back on the bed often as well.  It depends on the situation, but they are all enjoyable.  If I have to pick a favorite I think currently it would be having him sit and I kneel on the floor.  It will change again though.

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Registered: 06-09-2008
Wed, 09-04-2013 - 6:37pm

Being a man I prefer what we both are comfortable with and can give each of us the desired effect ... I enjoy the" journey" more than the destination I think...although the destination is usually very intense...LOL... Her kneeling in front of me with either myself standing or sitting...with my hands lost in her hair would be my favorite...followed by her swallowing...VERY INTENSE>>>!!!

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Registered: 09-06-2013
Fri, 09-06-2013 - 2:08am
what is with this swallowing thing? my boyfriend refuses for me to give him head if i am not going to swallow or at least cheek it. i personally am not a blow job fan but when horny enough i can humor the idea, but i would absolutely NEVER go for the whole swallowing thing. why is that such a must have???
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Registered: 11-04-2012
Sun, 09-15-2013 - 10:52am

I prefer in bed, with my hubby on his back and me kneeling beside him.  He prefers to sit or stand and have me kneel on the floor.  We go with whatever feels right at that moment.

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Registered: 09-11-2013
Tue, 09-17-2013 - 5:37pm
On my knees while he is standing so I can caress him underneath as well as his backside. On the bed is a close second but either way I enjoy it.
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Registered: 10-25-2013
Sat, 10-26-2013 - 5:06pm
Another male viewpoint: my wife has never been a big fan of giving me oral so she instead has gotten very good at giving a hand job, which to me is better than a bj. She prefers me lying down with her seated between my legs. She is able to use both hands and gets a close up of all the action. That is where she does it best no doubt. However, I love to be standing and her on my right side. From here she can stroke and tease me and also suck/nibble on my nipples, which will always instantly turn the intensity up a notch. A BIG notch!
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Registered: 06-27-2005
Fri, 12-06-2013 - 1:13pm

My lover likes me on my back on the bed, while she kneels between my legs or beside me.  I like that too because I can reach down and fondle her breasts. I also like to use my fingers or a toy on her while she is down on me. Then there are the times I like t pull her body around and give her oral while she is giving oral to me.

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Registered: 10-23-2003
Fri, 02-14-2014 - 2:22pm
I'm a big fan of the HJ as well. My wife used to just reach over under the covers and go to work. This way she could just lay beside me and talk to me or just watch the expressions on my face. When she did give a bj it was usually with her on top of me in bed or in some place where full sex wasn't an option. (in the washroom at a party, changing room at Walmart, in the car etc..)