Am I squirting or peeing???

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Registered: 08-04-2014
Am I squirting or peeing???
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Tue, 08-05-2014 - 12:40am

Hi everyone :) . A few months ago my fiancé and I were having sex, I was bent over the arm of our couch and it was feeling really nice.. all of a sudden my fiancé felt some liquid squirt onto his leg. Ever since then I have been interested in squirting. I have never had a orgasm from intercourse, only clitoral. Up until about a month ago I had never had a clitoral orgasm without my vibrator. My fiancé finally figured out how to do it orally. Last night, after about 30 minutes of oral (god bless him) I got the urge to bare down and push.. so I did.. and some liquid came out. But it wasn't like you see in porn. It didn't spray him in the face. It just kind of gushed out. After that I let it happen one more time and the bed was soaked. I didn't notice any smell and he said he didn't either. So I was curious today when he was at work. I laid down a white piece of fabric and did my thing. A lot gushed out today. It didn't feel the same as if I was peeing. It was mainly clear but did sort of smell like pee. Can someone give me some insight on this? I really want to be able to squirt all over him :) but I want to make sure it's not pee. Also, when I squirt, should I feel like I need to bare down or should it come on its own?! Thanks for any help!! 

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Registered: 06-25-2004
Wed, 10-29-2014 - 10:29pm

From what I can tell from what you are saying,you did squirt(had an FE) and it's not pee.As you know pee has a yellowish color and odor to it.Female Ejaculation will be clear watery like with no odor nor taste.Also from what I have experienced and understand it doesn't spray out like what you see in porn movies.There are some women who just oozes and gushes when they ejaculate.My lover ejaculates every time and sometimes it will ooz out and sometimes it will just gush out of her.

I hope that helps you some.

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Mon, 11-17-2014 - 9:19pm

I agree, I think you are "squirting". My lover did not squirt all the time but she did squirt fairly ofter. I could tell when she was ready to squirt if I had my fingers inside her. I usually had them in her to their length and at the start I had no problem moving then inside her. As she began to get excited I could feel her expanding and almost like she had part of her expanding and pushing on my fingers. She could get to the point to almost push my fingers out of her. She would get really wet, I mean really wet and the sheets would not just have a wet spot but a wet area beneath and around her. You might ask him to do the same and tell you what he feels, I would not have him ask or tell you but you tell him when you feel you are ready or are going to squirt. That way maybe he does not distract you and you can enjoy. Oh, I usually give her external stimuli with my other hand too.