Awesome sex but no "Big O"

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Registered: 09-11-2010
Awesome sex but no "Big O"
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Sun, 09-26-2010 - 3:46pm
I have great sex with the current person I am dating, but so far have only been able to have an orgasm once. This is very unusual for me as normally I can have an orgasm very easily during sex. The sex with him is some of the best that I have had ever, but no orgasm. Any thoughts?
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Registered: 09-06-2010
Sun, 09-26-2010 - 6:01pm
I wish I knew. Sorry.




Edited 10/2/2010 9:42 pm ET by darling.carly
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 09-27-2010 - 8:57am
What do you need to orgasm? If it's clit stimulation, does he know that?




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Registered: 09-11-2010
Mon, 09-27-2010 - 11:18am
He's doing everything right in terms of what would normally bring me to orgasm.
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 09-27-2010 - 2:38pm
Are you thinking/trying to hard? Are you relaxed?




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Registered: 10-12-2010
Tue, 10-12-2010 - 4:38pm

"Awesome sex but no Big O" .... definitely sounds like a contradiction of terms to me!

Sumnyte on A O L.
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Registered: 05-11-2009
Sat, 10-16-2010 - 12:55pm

I think we, women, overthink during sex. I know I find myself way overthinking when having sex. Especially if it is with someone new, as I find myself anyway, thinking about how it feels for him, if he's enjoying the sex with me and what do I look like to him during sex.