Can only orgasm with legs crossed

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Registered: 08-11-2005
Can only orgasm with legs crossed
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Thu, 08-11-2005 - 11:07pm
I've been masterbating since I was young, only by crossing my legs and using my muscles to contract rhythmically that way. Even now when I use a vibrator, I can only finish by crossing my legs. My "problem" is that when I'm having sex with someone, my legs can't go into this position! That leaves me without orgasm when having sex, and even though it's still pleasurable, it leaves me less than satisfied. Does anyone have any advice for me?

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 7:17pm

Welcome to the board, ssilverm.

 

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Registered: 05-14-2005
Sun, 08-14-2005 - 9:41pm

Ssilverm,

You are not alone. I have been masturbating that same way, too, although I have no problem in having orgasm during intercourse. I don't have any advice for you. In fact, I'll be watching this message board to see if anyone has any ideas. But I just want you to know that you're not alone. I have tried to bring myself to orgasm without crossing my legs, and nothing else seems to work for me. Maybe there are more people out there like us than we think!!! We'll see..........

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Registered: 08-11-2005
Sun, 08-14-2005 - 10:03pm
Thanks so much for your reply, Ragdoll...I'm a little confused, though. Do you mean you have a way to cross your legs during intercourse, and that's why you have no problem? Please share, if you do!
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Registered: 05-14-2005
Mon, 08-15-2005 - 7:29am
Sorry to confuse you. No, I don't cross my legs during intercourse, I've just never had a problem reaching orgasm during intercourse. What I meant was that crossing my legs is the only way for me to reach orgasm when masturbating.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 08-16-2005 - 4:48am

Welcome to the board, ragdoll.

 

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Registered: 02-17-2005
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 5:07pm

Hello, just wanted to let you know that you're not alone! When masterbating, I can only orgasm with my legs crossed or pressed firmly together. I've tried experimenting and slowly parting my legs a bit wider, but it takes so much longer.

The only way I've orgasmed while having sex with my boyfriend is when I'm on top. But I would love to see what other suggestions might come up.

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Registered: 05-28-2005
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 6:56am
It works best for me when my legs are together, too.....oh phooey.
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Registered: 12-31-2003
Wed, 08-31-2005 - 3:20am

Hi ssilverm.

I masterbate the same way and have done so since my teens. Recently I've adapted the way I do it, but at the end still crossing my legs. During sex with someone else this is how I do achieve that same feeling: If a guy is giving me oral, I squeeze the muscles of my buttox really tightly and sometimes push his head a little closer (some guys don't like that though, but the last boyfriend I had had no problem). It works everytime. If he's on top he knows how to stimulate the clitoris just enough to get me there too. He was soooooooooooo good at that. I am not comfortable riding the guy, I never have a *real* orgasm, I've faked a time or two though! LOL HTH you all!

~SB

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Registered: 10-04-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 11:22am
try crossing your legs when you have a full bladder. the sensation that you get is really great and will feel so good. you just have to pump up and down and you will get a great feeling. just keep squeezing your legs together. try this and you won't be disappointed.
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Registered: 10-04-2005
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 9:27pm
sexualbeing,
please try masturbating with you legs crossed when you have a full bladder. how do you get an orgasm when you have your legs crossed. how does it feel?

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