Cant get him to orgasm inside

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Registered: 01-29-2012
Cant get him to orgasm inside
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Sun, 01-29-2012 - 12:05pm

I am a 48 year old divorced lady who can't bring my man to orgasm inside me. I was married for 15 year, and the sex was ok from the onset, nothing great, but we clicked. I did not orgasm every time, but more like one in every four times we would have sex. After getting divorced and meeting someone new on line we began to date. He was much

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Sun, 01-29-2012 - 4:33pm

Well, I am curious to hear from any of the men on this one. My SO has a difficult time getting to orgasm too. The sex is awesome, and will get close but then, nothing. Its very frustrating for him. He says its not me, that he has always had this problem.

Is anyone else dealing with this?

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Registered: 03-15-2006
Sun, 01-29-2012 - 8:53pm

It is him, you sound as though you are having a wonderful time, are you not?

 Rich, good to the last drop

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Registered: 12-05-2010
Wed, 02-01-2012 - 10:47pm

Ms. Apple-

Hi. In the past, with a new partner, I wouldn't feel comfortable enough to ejaculate. The problem would go away as I got more used to the woman. Maybe he doesn't feel fully comfortable with you for some reason.

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Registered: 09-17-2007
Thu, 02-02-2012 - 5:03pm

It is not you.

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Mon, 02-06-2012 - 4:08pm
Very good points, it's nice to hear directly from men. We have talked about it and it definitely does not slow him down, but I do feel bad for him.

Thanks!