Can't O with H but can with........

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solost22
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Registered: 01-04-2012
Can't O with H but can with........
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 Mon, 01-09-2012 - 4:00pm
My H & I seperated and I had a "fling". I have never orgasmed with my H (but enjoyed sex, at least at first). Anyway, the guy I had the "fling" with.....OMG. MULTIPLE O's!! Problem is H and I are trying to work things out and it is going OK except I cannot imagine going back to that frustration again. Has anyone ever been through this? I haven't resumed a sexual relationship with H yet because I don't know if I can deal with this. Any advice from M women on if this has gotten better?
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nhgal2006
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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: solost22
Re: Can't O with H but can with........
 Tue, 01-10-2012 - 9:52am

What did this other guy do that helped you get off? Do you masterbate? Have you talked to your hubby about what you need in order to orgasm? He's not a mind reader.



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evil_01
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Registered: 06-27-2007
In reply to: solost22
Re: Can't O with H but can with........
 Wed, 01-11-2012 - 4:45pm

The best sex occurs when you want it to ... maybe you just were more yourself with this other guy.

trenner2
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Registered: 12-05-2010
In reply to: solost22
Re: Can't O with H but can with........
 Sun, 01-15-2012 - 2:37am
nhgal2006 wrote:

What did this other guy do that helped you get off?

Yes, that is the right question here. You need

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