difficulties with have an O

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Registered: 07-30-2006
difficulties with have an O
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Tue, 07-20-2010 - 3:52pm

Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a couple years now. I think the sex is great but my orgasm troubles are hard for him to deal with I think. He says it takes me a really long time to orgasm. I know I do take a very long time no matter how he tries to make me but I don't know what to do to make me get there faster. Any suggestions? I would love to be able to get it done a little quicker.

Normally, when I masturbate I have to rub on something pretty hard. Any kind of direct contact with my clit is just too much...it almost hurts. Sometimes when I'm on top my man likes to rub my clit, but it just doesn't feel that great to me. It seems I'm the only female that feels this way!! I've also noticed when I do use my hand, I apply lots of pressure above my clit.

With all of this said...any suggestions on how to orgasm better with my boyfriend during sex and oral?

Thanks!

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 07-22-2010 - 8:17am

Hi goddess. It seems you know what you like and need to orgasm, so have you explained to him the way you need to be touched? Or showed him?


You might want to check out the site: http://the-clitoris.com/. It is filled with useful information that both you and your bf will find helpful.



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Registered: 04-21-2008
Fri, 07-23-2010 - 11:29am

Hi and welcome.

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