Feel like it's impossible for me to orgasm

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Registered: 07-05-2006
Feel like it's impossible for me to orgasm
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Fri, 01-14-2011 - 5:24pm

Hello,

I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. We've just recently tried changing types of condoms, using finger vibrators, to help stimulate me but nothing seems to work. He's done a lot of foreplay on me and touching and that still doesn't work either. I feel like it's impossible for me to orgasm and I don't know what the problem is. Is this common in women? I'm thinking of buying a toy online for myself but I don't know what kind to get or if it will even help me. I'm at a loss as to what to do I'm getting very frustrated. Sex isn't pleasure for me it's just fun, because I can't seem to orgasm. :( HELP!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2007

Hello there


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2006

Yes, I come close when I touch my clit but still doesn't get me off. I think a strong toy might help I just don't know what to get.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011

Try to play different games like dress up or disallow each other from touching each other. Sounds weird but the more you create anticipation the better the climax will be.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008

Hi Stephanie and welcome.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2007

Try toys and everything else!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2006

I finally have a success story! I ordered some toys from edenfantasys.com

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2007
Lots of women find the clit stimulator the best. Also have him try the Big O ring! it's great. For the best joint fun he can enter you from behind and you use the clit stimulator ... feeling you gush will do it for him too! Also try the pillows from liberator. All kinds of things to help the right angle! This is an adventure for you to share together! Enjoy!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2006

Hello I'm looking on the liberator now and I think that's a great idea! The only bad thing is it's so expensive for the neat furniture :(

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006

That's because most women need clit stimulation. Tell your BF you need that stimulation. Show him how you like to be touched.



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Registered: 10-29-2003

You have to buy a toy.

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