I can only get an orgasm when my clit is being rubbed

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Registered: 04-26-2012
I can only get an orgasm when my clit is being rubbed
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Thu, 04-26-2012 - 10:47pm

I don't know if it's weird or not but I cannot get an orgasm during intercourse. My boyfriend have to rub it while we're having sex. Sometimes I wonder if it has something to do with him being the first man I've had sex with and it takes time?

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Registered: 05-20-2009

You, and 80+% of all women do not have orgasms from intercourse alone.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2009
Think of getting a vibrating ring for him to wear. then you can try for the best of both worlds
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2011
I usually get an orgasm when her clit is being rubbed too
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Registered: 08-28-1998
You are perfectly normal and most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm during intercourse. There is no problem to solve.

Some positions do offer more clitoral stimulation than others. When you are on top, you can choose to grind more. Also, try the CAT(coital alignment technique). Similar to missionary but he lays on top, shifts higher on you. This brings the base of his penis into continual contact with your clitoris. Again more grinding than thrusting. Google it for a detailed explanation.