I can't have a vaginal orgasm

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Registered: 06-22-2011
I can't have a vaginal orgasm
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Wed, 06-22-2011 - 8:53pm

Im 26 yrs old, and in a very loving relationship with my fiance. My whole life i've struggled with having an orgasm during sex. I can have one no problem during masterbation, but i cannot for the life of me have one with penetration vaginally. I never have. I don't have a very high sex drive either, who would when you cant orgasm. Sex still feels good, theres just no end result. Does anyone else have this problem? or can offer some advise.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 06-23-2011 - 9:10am

Most women do not orgasm from vaginal intercourse. Is there any clit stimulation, as that is a big factor for lots of women. Why not tell him to rub your clit, or you can do it. If you're on top, tell him you need him to put his fingers there and rub. Do you have any toys? You can also use one of those for the stimulation. Try it and let us know what happens.



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Registered: 05-28-2011
Thu, 06-23-2011 - 12:10pm

I'm the same way.

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Registered: 06-22-2011
Fri, 06-24-2011 - 9:55pm
Yes, there is clit stimulation. Normally i'll do that while we're having sex, and thats the only way i can o. I have a vibrator, but never introduced it. Maybe i should! Thanks for the reply :-)
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Registered: 06-22-2011
Fri, 06-24-2011 - 10:00pm
Okay good, im glad im not the only one in this club. You're having 3 orgasms per session? Props to you. I'm lucky if I can have one, and if i do, it usually takes awhile. Poor guy ha.
Thanks for the advice!
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Registered: 03-27-2009
Sat, 06-25-2011 - 5:35pm
Vibrating ring......"Berman Center Minerva Enhancement Ring" is quite nice...10 settings and pulse patterns......Amazon. Most likely to pop your cork. Cowgirl will make you have the most control.....Interesting for him too.