I want him to make me squirt

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Registered: 09-14-2010
I want him to make me squirt
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Sat, 04-28-2012 - 12:05am

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 years and we have a very loving relationship and a great sex life. A few months ago I stumbled across a website that offered instructional videos on female ejaculation/squirting and suggested that we purchase them and watch them together and take things to another level. I've squirted a few times on my own with some powerful vibrators through clitoral stimulation but each time has been an "accident." I want to get to the point where it's a regular occurrence because it feels amazing. We've tried to make it happen a couple of times with no success and we haven't attempted it in a while.

The problem is he got offended we I suggested that we purchase the videos. He thinks that I'm saying he's not good enough for me. I've tried to explain how it could benefit our relationship and he's just not understanding. I think that he has misconceptions about squirting and he just feels that he should be able to figure it out without watching a video. I feel bad now and think that I've seriously hurt his feelings.

What can I say or do to make him feel more comfortable about purchasing and watching the videos?

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sat, 04-28-2012 - 4:51am

I don't know what you've read, or heard about, but female ejaculation comes from "g" spot stimulation.

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Sat, 04-28-2012 - 7:39am
Ok. I understand what you are saying and I appreciate your input. The thing is ...he's not open to watching any kind of instructional video whether free or paid. He's the type of guy that feels that if he can't figure it on his own then he's not gonna ask for help. You know, the type that doesn't stop to ask for directions. Lol

I know all about the g-spot and a-spot and so on but when I try to pass the information along to him he tunes me out. I have body trembling clitoral and vaginal orgasms and I guess he feels that those orgasms are the best that I can have. I know for sure that I can squirt with a powerful vibrator on my clitoris but I don't want to become dependent on that method.

I just want him to assist me in reaching this goal but he's not open to learning. I forgot to mention that there's an age gap. He's 25 and I'm 30. Could that have anything to do with his reluctance to learning?
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Sat, 04-28-2012 - 7:54am
And I forgot to mention that the instructionl videos are very popular. They are by Jason Julius. Maybe you've heard of him. If you're interested in what I'm talking about you can visit his website orgasmarts.com/blueprint
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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sat, 04-28-2012 - 12:15pm

That "age gap" isn't that much......except maybe in "maturity".