little man big vagina

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Registered: 10-22-2013
little man big vagina
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Tue, 10-22-2013 - 3:51pm

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Im a lil on the small side 7.5 length and 4.7 around my gf can only orgasm when she grinds on me (nearly broke me) cause of my girth, i like her to orgasm first but after she orgasm while grinding on me her vagina gets really loose so much that air gets in there somtim. but any way i can't feel anything and neither can she. Ive tried diff positions but it's like a pencil going in a cup at an angle. oral is good, fingers too but is't not like a thck cock fill her up. somtimes i wannna tell her she can have 2 times a month to cheat an get a thick 6 inch cock ride Wink

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Wed, 10-23-2013 - 11:33am

It sounds like you don' t know much about a woman's anatomy.  Maybe she doesn't either.  If your measurements are correct, you aren't small at all, in fact you're bigger than the average.  Unless she's very abnormal, she shouldn't be so loose that you get lost in her.......maybe she's just lubricating too much, and you lose the friction.......in which case, keep a towel or tissues handy to wipe her off.  Maybe she's experiencing female ejaculation, which also can be wiped away.  Most women do NOT have orgasms from intercourse alone.  We need clitoral stimulation, oral or digital.  If she's already had her orgasms, then she can finish you orally or with her hands.  There are ways to work this out, and if a man ever offered me a "free pass" I'd offer him one, right out the door forever.  I'm not even sure if she's the one complaining, or it's you........in which case, do her a favor and move on to someone who will fit YOUR requirements.

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Registered: 09-12-2011
Wed, 10-23-2013 - 5:09pm

if thats the way you feel that you would allow her to cheat because of that ,

tells me that u you dont care about her that much and also it tells a tale where you dont put in the effort to try and familiarize yourself with a womans anatomy either

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Registered: 09-17-2007
Thu, 10-24-2013 - 4:30pm

7.5 inches is not small, average is about 5.5-6 inches.  

Just a side note- the board will not allow li bi do, but will allow cock.  

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Registered: 10-22-2013
Fri, 10-25-2013 - 1:11am

fiss thanks for the input i def won't bring up the other man thing.

I wipe her down after i perform oral on her. It's not a lack of me trying thats why im on here. I try all sorts of things but she won't tell me what she likes. I had a hard time just getting her to let me use a vibrator even then she won't let it enter her only clitoral stimulation. 

as far as average size IMO it's rather arbitrary and not a factor in this discussion.

no ladies or gents have ever experinced something like this, when I  bring  up other toys to fill the gap she feel like it's her... 

i just want to please her

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sun, 11-03-2013 - 1:42am

It sounds like it bothers you more than it does her.  Many women don't like to talk about what they like or what they want, it has to do with the way they were raised, and it's hard for them to get past that.  Some women were told sex is nasty and dirty, and only men like it.  Women who like it are low class, etc.  If she can't tell you what she wants, then maybe you need to experiment a little with positions instead of toys.  Try doggie style!  Have her get on top of you!  Try the good old sixty nine.....and then ask her if she liked it or didn't like it.  Does she have orgasms?  Does she give you oral sex?  Leave the vibrators out of it, too.  If she doesn't like them, then don't force it.  I don't blame her, I don't like them either........

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Registered: 12-24-2003
Tue, 01-28-2014 - 12:14pm

If air is getting inside her, try this...

Have her on all fours and, with a generousd amount of lube on your fingers, carefully place 2 fingers in her. Tell her to squeeze her PC muscles and slightly spread your fingers. This should push all the air out. Now, have her head and shoulders drop below her hips and enter her doggy style. The shoulders lower than the hips creates a bend in her vaginal canal and also creates a seal when your penis enters her.

This should both tighten her and prevent air from entering. Be aware that your penis, once it penetrates, should not leave her body until you're done. If it exits a little bit, air will get sucked in due to the vaccuum.