need help changing my state of mind so I can orgasm

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Registered: 08-09-2010
need help changing my state of mind so I can orgasm
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Mon, 12-20-2010 - 8:51pm

I've been thinking about why I can't orgasm.

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Registered: 05-20-2009

When you make an orgasm a goal.......when you TRY to have orgasms.......it will never work!

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Registered: 04-21-2008

"Orgasms don't make sex good.......good sex makes orgasms happen (If you let it happen)"

Just had to chime in to say that I love that quote!

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Registered: 05-04-2007

I don't know if guilt has anything to do with it

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 08-09-2010

thanks everyone, but i have read similar replies like that to other posts

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-09-2010

hey, how come my bolded words didn't stay bold?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008

I see the bold type.

I'm sorry you didn't get the answers you were looking for.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006

I see them in bold.

I was looking for an answer maybe like this: "Take advantage of the guy who is willing to have sex with you and just have fun." If that's what you want to do, then do it.

Do you mean masturbate in front of my partner? Sure, if you're comfortable doing that, go for it.

Have you checked out this website: http://the-clitoris.com/. It's filled with some great info.

I know it's easier said than done, but you really need to try and get yourself to relax, let your mind wander, think about how good it feels, etc.



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Registered: 05-04-2007

Because this new layout sucks A-dollar sign-dollar sign

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 05-20-2009

I'm confused here........You've read similar replies to other posts, because those replies are answering your questions!

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Registered: 08-09-2010

I am really attracted to him otherwise I wouldn't have stuck with him for the past year and a half....

Physical attraction? Is that all it is based on?

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