No Orgasm

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Registered: 05-15-2006
No Orgasm
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Sat, 08-14-2010 - 11:22pm
I have never had an orgasm. I have tried masturbating, therapists, hormone medications, over-the-counter medications, everything. I'm 35-years-old and have been with my husband almost 10 years. How can I make myself orgasm? Any help is greatly appreciated.
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Registered: 05-04-2007
In reply to: nvrhd1
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 12:22pm

I have tried masturbating, ...


Do you feel anything? Getting close? Tightness in the area? Building pressure?


Do you have a hard time focusing? Tried pressing harder, softer, slower, faster, on the clitoris?


Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 05-15-2006
In reply to: nvrhd1
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 10:02pm
I felt some difference with a vibrator but never an orgasm. I can't tell if I was close to one or not. I've tried varying the pressure too. The therapist basically said to focus on the act not the outcome. He gave some good tips and exercises to try but I still didn't have the outcome I wanted.
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Registered: 05-22-2010
In reply to: nvrhd1
Tue, 08-17-2010 - 1:17am
Have you tried a Hitachi Magic Wand? It's a very powerful vibrator - massager type not phallic. I haven't heard of anyone who can't O with that one.