Orgasm with legs closed

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Registered: 07-11-2004
Orgasm with legs closed
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Sun, 07-11-2004 - 5:32am
The only way for me to have an orgasm is to stretch and close my legs tightly while my clit been stimulated. I have orgasm almost everytime this way. But it makes hard for my partner to stimulate my vagina. So I never had orgasms with intercourse alone. If I open my legs, no matter what he or I do, it just can not bring me over.

How can I get there with my legs apart so I may have a change to have a vaginal orgasm?

Any suggestion?

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sun, 07-11-2004 - 9:35am
80% of women do not have vaginal orgasms....because there is little or no feeling in the vagina, except for the "g" spot. Most women need clitoral stimulation to have orgasms. That's because your clitoris is where all the feeling is.

No matter how you have it, an orgasm is an orgasm. Many women don't have them at all, so count yourself as lucky. You can try other postions that will stimulate your clitoris during intercourse. Woman on top is good for that. You can also try other positions, and use your hand to stimulate your clitoris.

Instead of worrying about what you can't do, accept what works, and enjoy it.

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Registered: 05-23-2004
Sun, 07-11-2004 - 10:46pm
Yeah my gf and I just tried it for the first time with legs closed and she didnt get off is there something I should do to help that?
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Registered: 04-27-2004
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 3:20am
I think you just have to practice things different until it gradually starts to work. I was actually just reading an article on women.com called "4 secrets to a better orgasm" and it's about practicing stimulating your g-spot in different ways many times so you get used to it. I've done something similar and so I think it should work if you're patient and keep at it --something I need to try, too. Good luck!
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Registered: 04-15-2004
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 8:51am
I thought I was the only one!!! We have this exact situation, and the way we have figured out is....usually to start out, I lay on my back on the bed with my butt just at the edge of it and my feet on the floor, arms above my head, this seems to pull everything up and make the clit "available". (Sounds more complicated than it really is!!) Receiving oral this way is incredible as well! Then hubby puts his feet on either side of mine and enters me that way, the friction is mindboggling and it stimulates the posterior wall too which is even better! The other way is with me on top, we start out with the usual girl-on-top position, then I bring my legs together and use the headboard to pull myself more back and forth than up and down, hubby loves the "tight-fit" of this one too. Hope they help, Good Luck!
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 1:15pm
That's a great way to climax. How about if you spread your legs and he sucks and licks on your clitoris? If the tip of his tongue doesn't do it, have him lay his tongue real flat against your entire vaginal area and run his mouth and tongue back and forth. What about rubbing his penis on your clit? How about laying on your stomach with your butt up and he rubbing you from behind? Have you tried different positions like these? Just a thought. Also, what about keeping your legs closed like you do and have him bring you to the brink, then spread them so he can lick you or bang you to climax?
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 07-12-2004 - 4:47pm

Hi, monkeytail.

 

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Registered: 07-11-2004
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 2:28pm
Greenteabag,

Thanks for putting it in perspective!

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Registered: 07-11-2004
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 2:33pm
takethatgirl,

Thank you for your reply! I have taken your suggestions and tried with different things. I just had my first orgasm with my legs open. It was letting water from a shower head fall on my clit.
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Registered: 07-11-2004
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 2:38pm
I will try it! Thanks for reply!
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Registered: 07-11-2004
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 2:40pm
Good suggestion. Will try that!