orgasms in general & can men orgasm with NO cumming?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-09-2010
orgasms in general & can men orgasm with NO cumming?
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Sat, 11-27-2010 - 7:22pm

hi all,

my FWB is concerned I can't orgasm while he goes down on me and while we have intercourse, so we were texting back and forth one night and we came to this conclusion:

we disagree about whether men and woman have to cum in order to orgasm.

In other words, is cumming a prerequisite to orgasming or is orgasming a prerequisite to cumming?

Can a man orgasm without any fluid coming out of his penis (ejaculating I guess) or can a woman orgasm without ejaculating?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008

Hi and welcome,

Not being able to orgasm from oral sex isn't unusual -- many women have difficulties reaching orgasm, no matter the

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007

For so long, society has placed so much importance on a mans ejaculate that not many realize that ejaculating and orgasming are two totally different animals.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-09-2010

thanks for your replies.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008

You got some good answers on the Let's Talk About Sex board.

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