Porn and a lack of climax

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Registered: 03-02-2012
Porn and a lack of climax
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Fri, 03-02-2012 - 3:39pm

My lover and I have been active for a little over a month and although we both get turned on and have fun, he does NOT climax.

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Registered: 02-15-2007
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 3:59pm

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Registered: 03-02-2012
Fri, 03-02-2012 - 4:11pm

Thanks for the input... because this is such an "charged" topic we have taken to emailing each other about it to take any embaressment out of the issue...

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sat, 03-03-2012 - 12:08am

I don't think it's the porn, it's the masturbation.

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Registered: 04-10-2012
Wed, 04-11-2012 - 11:52am

Celtic,

I am a male and I experienced the same issue. I had mb'ed to porn for a while and found myself struggling to climax with other women. That doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it, b/c I really did, but I found it difficult to climax. Most times I would just let the girl finish and I'd MB when I got back home.

The thing that did it for me was one of my girlfriend's "acted out" a porn scene that I described and I was able to climax without any difficulty at all. I know situations are different, but that's how it worked for me. That was probably 7 years ago or so. Since then, I've had no trouble at all, and I still look at porn from time to time. Maybe if he can do it once, the issue will be gone for good like it is for me. Hopefully this helps you out.

I know it's been a little while since you posted this, any results? How are things?