Prolonging Orgasm for Women

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Registered: 05-13-1999
Prolonging Orgasm for Women
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Mon, 11-06-2006 - 11:24pm

Folks,

The only way my wife can orasm is through oral. My question is, is there anything that can be done during cunnilingus to prolong her orgasm.

Every once in a while, she has a l-o-n-g and satisfying orgasm but most of the time....her orgasm is over almost as soon as it starts.

She often tells me to "avoid direct contact" on her clitoris during oral...until the very end. The issue is not prolonging foreplay or lovemaking....as we take plenty of time with that. The issue is that once the orgasm starts....it is over right away. IN a flash. Maybe the cause is that when she is ready to come, she wants the DIRECT contact. However, as soon as my tongue touches her clitoris, she goes over the top and the orgasm is over.

As a man, I don't understand why this is a problem....as for me....an orgasm feels good regardless of "long it lasts".

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2005
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 1:01am

Try using your finger(s) to stimulate her "g" spot during oral. If you get it right, it can produce a LONG orgasm.

Other wise, they're as long as they are. I don't think there's any way to control the lenghth of them.

She's also not unusual in that she only orgasms from oral...because clitoral stimulation is the only way most women can have them. Have you tried clitoral stimulation during intercourse, that usually will work, too. If you try woman on top.......she might not have LONG ones, but she can have multiples.....as long as she has the strenghth to keep moving.