sex question

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2012
sex question
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Tue, 03-27-2012 - 9:48am

hi my question is does talking over the phone gets a man exited for sex and when he controls his feeling weakens his sex abilities?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
In reply to: ritasita
Tue, 03-27-2012 - 1:09pm

Your question is confusing!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2007
In reply to: ritasita
Thu, 04-12-2012 - 10:51pm

Im assuming you're talking about phone sex...

Phone sex is still a form of sex. Your partner is most probably not holding or suppressing his feelings (contrary to what he may be telling you or you want to believe) ..he's probably getting aroused by the conversation

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-10-2012
In reply to: ritasita
Mon, 04-16-2012 - 10:22am

Assuming your talking about phone sex, yes, it definately can be arousing for us (men). We are good at producing mental images and letting our imagination run. As far as controlling feelings weakening abilities, I would say no. I think the fact that they are controlled means it just builds up more and makes "release" even better. Although, sometimes it is nice to "lose control".

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-29-2012
In reply to: ritasita
Tue, 07-31-2012 - 9:34pm
I can only speak from experience. My SO and I were a ways apart. We spoke on the phone and not really phone sex, just explicit discussion about sex. When we got together it was an ALL NIGHT MARATHON!!! We did refrain from self release during the time we were apart.