unable to finish

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Registered: 12-17-2010
unable to finish
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Fri, 12-17-2010 - 5:23pm
My BF and I have been together for 7 years, recently had a short seperation and are now rekindling and its been pretty great..... except for when we hit the sheets!
We both get extremely turned on and want eachother pretty badly, however at different times either I dry up and it starts to hurt so we stop and finish by masterbation, still together just without penetration, or we go at it like crazy and he can't finish, he can get close but then it goes away. Idk what to do to help our situation, I've tried being more kinky, coming out of my shell, I send him sexy texts to get his mind going before he's home. I'm not sure how I can help!
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Registered: 04-21-2008
Mon, 12-20-2010 - 8:25am

Hi and welcome.

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Registered: 12-29-2010
Thu, 12-30-2010 - 2:01am

I first started to experience this not long ago. In my case it seems to be due to low T. I just went this week for replacement therapy. Not so much for the sex drive, more for the feeling of being tired and other symptoms. This may not be the case for your man, but it sounds like something is.

I went through a period of low libido from a divorce and depression but that was different. Then I had little desire to do it. Now I have little desire but can get worked up only to find that while I have a good erection I simply can't orgasm.

Hopefully the replacement

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Thu, 12-30-2010 - 9:32am

Probably just nervous

although, low T could be an idea if you're over 30 or 40 ... no ages given

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha