Good bless you, fissatore. Seems like most people think sex stops at 40 or 50. I was fortunate to have some wonderful experiences in my younger years, but it seemed to get better after 50 and continues to
YAY for the orgasm. Now that you've practiced and know what you need in order to orgasm, tell your husband. Talk to him outside the bedroom and explain the way things will be done. If he tries to stop concentrating on your pleasure first, don't let him. If it means stopping completely, then so be it. He has to be willing to help you before he gets off.
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Hi Olivia,
I just came upon your post, sorry if I'm late to the party.....
I had just my uterus removed when I was 46 and I found that things did change for me.
I loved what fissatore said to! Its great to know that the sex drive doens;t have to go away. I just turned 48, SO is 50, and the sex is
Good bless you, fissatore. Seems like most people think sex stops at 40 or 50. I was fortunate to have some wonderful experiences in my younger years, but it seemed to get better after 50 and continues to
Sounds to me like you are making a lot of good moves. Just don't give up.
I was going to suggest the FWB approach, but it seems you have beaten me to
Wow!
Orgasms aren't affected by hysterectomies.
YAY for the orgasm. Now that you've practiced and know what you need in order to orgasm, tell your husband. Talk to him outside the bedroom and explain the way things will be done. If he tries to stop concentrating on your pleasure first, don't let him. If it means stopping completely, then so be it. He has to be willing to help you before he gets off.
I wonder if I am now having difficulty relaxing enough to allow for ME to feel pleasure, because I find myself worrying about him.
Maybe.
hi,
I probably should make, an appointment I guess.
Hi,
Thank you so much for responding to me!
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