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| Thu, 09-01-2005 - 4:44pm |
My boyfriend of six months has told me that he is ready to have sex. We are both virgins and have talked about having sex, but I don't think I'm quite ready yet. I'm on birth control and we have discussed using a condom and everything, I'm just still a little nervous. He said he would wait as long as I need, and I don't feel pressured, but I really WANT to have sex with him and want to be ready. Is there anything I can do to make me feel more prepared and ready?

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Since I've been sexually active since before you were born, and probably before your Mother was born......I think I do know what I'm talking about!
Since August 17, which was your first time (and I think your only time) you have been freaking out about bleeding, about the possiblility of being pregnant, and about a pap smear. That doesn't sound to me like you were ready, or that it was so great! Then there is your statement: "we had foreplay and i wasnt scared or really tryna think about the pain but it was so tight it hurt badly."
Exactly which way WERE you trying to encourage her?
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