1st time quiz

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Registered: 10-11-2005
1st time quiz
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Fri, 11-11-2005 - 10:18pm

How old were you:

Who was it with:

Where were you:

Did you talk about it before:

Did you feel ready:

Do you regret it or did you ever regret it:

Was it good:

How did you feel afterwards:

If you could have changed anything, what would it be:

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 11-11-2005 - 10:29pm

How old were you:


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Registered: 12-04-2003
Sat, 11-12-2005 - 9:23am

How old were you: 19

Who was it with: My husband now boyfriend at the time

Where were you: motel the first time it actually happened. I lived with my parents and they went away

Did you talk about it before: Not really one thing led to another

Did you feel ready: Yes

Do you regret it or did you ever regret it: Nope

Was it good: It was ok . I was really nervous .

How did you feel afterwards: good

If you could have changed anything, what would it be: That I would have known how to do it better .

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-29-2003
Sat, 11-12-2005 - 1:23pm

I was 19 years old.

A guy, that I knew.

In college.

Yes

At the moment, I did.

Sometime, I did (during that time period)

Yes

I would have waited,until I was in a serious w/a guy. My 2nd boyfriend, I was 24 yrs. old, when I have sex again, after a 2 years of absent.

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Registered: 02-29-2004
Sat, 11-12-2005 - 6:42pm

How old were you: 24

Who was it with: I don't kiss @ tell

Where were you: another friend's house

Did you talk about it before: not really

Did you feel ready: MORE than ready!

Do you regret it or did you ever regret it: No way! It was a great stress-reliever, and it banished my fears about sex (other than pregnancy, which I still hold)

Was it good: Very good. He was veeeeery experienced.

How did you feel afterwards: hehe...sore...

If you could have changed anything, what would it be: about the sex? Nothing. It was good. I was ready.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sat, 11-12-2005 - 9:03pm

How old were you:?
:: I was 11yo.

Who was it with:
::A girl the same age as me, a friend of the families.

Where were you:
At her parent's house while both our parents were out for the evening.

Did you talk about it before:
Not really. It was a spur of the moment thing I guess - a "game" and natural curiousity from both of us that went a bit further than I would have thought possible.

Did you feel ready:
:: At the time? Yeah, I guess so. We both had a very good understanding of the mechanics of sex and of what was involved physically. The emotional significance clearly wasn't on an adult level though.

Do you regret it or did you ever regret it:
:: No, I don't really regret it. It's what happened. Neither of us was forced into it and we had fun at the time. I do regret taking the risk of doing it without birthcontrol though. With hindsight that was a terrible risk.

Was it good:
Hmmmm. It was more interesting and exciting than good.

How did you feel afterwards:
::Quite OK. Fascinated with the physical feelings.

If you could have changed anything, what would it be:
::To have waited until I was older when it had more emotional significance, when it was more than just two kids with strong curosity.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 11-13-2005 - 3:50am

Who was it with:My now Ex

Where were you:In her bedroom of her house

Did you talk about it before:No

Did you feel ready: more than

Do you regret it or did you ever regret it: No

Was it good:Not as good as tyhe next time, more conferdance gave me the chance to do the things that make good sex

How did you feel afterwards:Is that all there is to sex!

If you could have changed anything, what would it be. It would have happend much earler

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Registered: 11-04-1999
Sun, 11-13-2005 - 6:21am

How old were you: 21

Who was it with: A female friend in college. Not exactly a GF, but I didn't care.

Where were you: Her apartment

Did you talk about it before: Not directly, but it was hinted at.

Did you feel ready: More than ready.

Do you regret it or did you ever regret it: No regrets. It was time.

Was it good: It was OK. The first few times we tried, I kept losing my erection. By the time we actually had IC, I was really nervous and worried that I'd never have sex.

How did you feel afterwards: It was a bit of a disappointment. I expected more glorious, ecstatic feelings.

If you could have changed anything, what would it be: I wish it had been with someone I was more attracted to. She didn't really arouse me that much, but I desperately wanted to get rid of the "virgin" label.

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Registered: 11-06-2005
Sun, 11-13-2005 - 3:32pm

How old were you: 17 1/2

Who was it with: My Bf (who i'm still with, he's amazing!)

Where were you: My bedroom

Did you talk about it before: Yes, we talked about contraception, and how we felt about it.

Did you feel ready: More than ever!

Do you regret it or did you ever regret it: No, it was amazing!

Was it good: It was at the time!

How did you feel afterwards: So in LOVE.

If you could have changed anything, what would it be: Nothing at all.

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Registered: 06-02-2005
Sun, 11-13-2005 - 7:01pm

How old were you: 17

Who was it with: My best friend and boyfriend (who i'm still with)

Where were you: At my house, my parents left for the weekend

Did you talk about it before: Months before, about our history and birth control, and that i was ready

Did you feel ready: Definately! I love him so much, I've never wanted to be so close to someone.

Do you regret it or did you ever regret it: NOPE!!!! It was very special I wouldn't trade it for anything.

Was it good: yes, there is no other feeling like it.

How did you feel afterwards: emotional, very very emotional

If you could have changed anything, what would it be: Nothing really. One small detail comes to mind- i really wish the blinds were closed.

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Registered: 05-01-2003
Mon, 11-14-2005 - 7:45am


How old were you: 22

Who was it with: My ex-husband

Where were you: Hotel on our honeymoon

Did you talk about it before: Of course

Did you feel ready: I was more than ready

Do you regret it or did you ever regret it: I often wish I had begun my sex life earlier

Was it good: not as good as it might have been

How did you feel afterwards: exhausted

If you could have changed anything, what would it be: With 20/20 hindsight lots, but at the time it seemed great.

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