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2 problems all wraped up one one
| Tue, 05-27-2008 - 3:42am |
. OK the last guy I was with had a problem with permute ejaculating. So to compensate I learned how to "get there" very quickly.It worked well for us and we were both stratified with our sex life. Now that there is someone new who dose not have this problem I don't know how to slow down and take my time "getting there". the other thing is that once

Welcome to the board, oneglimeringmoment.
I don't think there is anyway to stop the amount of wetness you produce, but there are a couple of things that might help you with the problems you're having.
If you do get so wet that you feel he can't get the friction he needs during IC, then you could keep some wipes or towels by the bed and wipe some of the wetness away. Another option would be to excuse yourself for a moment to go to the restroom. While there, dry yourself up with tissue or a towel.
As far as trying to prolong sex, you could use foreplay to help with that. For you, try having at least one orgasm during foreplay. The second can often take longer, so during IC, you would be able to last longer. OR, just keep going with IC because you may be able to have more ;-) Also, you could help him get much closer to orgasm during IC so that he goes quicker once penetration begins.
I don't understand the "problem" of being wet!
"I don't know how to slow down and take my time "getting there". "
If it is a problem for you, try prolonging it when you masturbate.
Being wet is all good!