20-30 orgasms in one session?

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20-30 orgasms in one session?
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Sun, 06-05-2005 - 11:48am
my serious bf says his previous lover had 20-30 orgasms in one sexual session and on a consistant basis. I call total BS, is it even possible?
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Sun, 06-05-2005 - 1:40pm
He's your serious b/f yet he discusses his previous lovers orgasms with you?

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Sun, 06-05-2005 - 2:08pm

I agree with Tish.....of course it's possible, it happens to me consistently too, but I've never counted...it could be 10, 20, 30, or just a few very long ones....it doesn't matter, because no one is keeping score.

I also agree with Tish in wondering why he would tell you that? Is he trying to tell you that you're not "up to his standards"? It sounds like he thinks he was responsible for it, and he wasn't. IF it happened (and she might very well have been faking it!) it's because SHE knew how, not because he was such a wonderful lover! He knew which buttons to push, but she's the one responsible for her orgasms, not him. (and if she WAS faking, he wouldn't know!)

If I were you, I'd just forget about it, and don't try to be something you're not. If she was that great, why isn't he still with her? Tell him you have no interest in the feats of his former partner(s).

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Sun, 06-05-2005 - 2:22pm

I agree with the others. I'm capable of orgasming that much(although I've never gone that far) ;-)--It's certainly possible.

And why are you discussing the details of past lovers and their orgasms? That would be akin to you telling your bf that your last lover could shoot a distance of six feet; or how adept he was at oral. I feel that that type of information is private.

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Sun, 06-05-2005 - 3:45pm

It's possible but I think it also depends on how one defines as an orgasm, as well. Some people believe each contraction is a single orgasm, for example.

I'm multiorgasmic but I certainly don't experience them EVERY time. Several factors must line up correctly for them to occur.

I think you need to tell your BF that this is what the phrase "TOO much information" was created for!




Edited 6/5/2005 3:48 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Sun, 06-05-2005 - 3:57pm
hey all who responded. I totally agree. The reason I question it is because I'm sure she was lieing and she is responsible and she can't manage a happy emotion so i doubted the orgasms. The reason I know is because he and I were best friends before this and we both know more than we probably should. I know he was very sexually attracted to her as I have been to others but she is a trainwreck and he and I can barely keep our clothes on plu sour relationship is great so, and it is not something that comes up, I just thought I'd get another opinion from peopl who would know. I am working on becoming more orgasmic so all the info I can get is important. Thanks girls!!!
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Sun, 06-05-2005 - 5:25pm
I define an orgasm as a period of build up to a series of contractions. They can vary in intensity and length, though.
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Sun, 06-05-2005 - 6:23pm

Hey catjo!

I too wondered about that great point Tish brought up regarding how you got on the subject of what his "former" lover was able to do. His job is to impress you with what he is able to do for today, and NOT what he shared back then in the past.

Mrs. Para enjoys multiples, and I'm able to handle a couple rounds myself, but we don't really calculate how many times or whatever. We typically just enjoy till we're too tired to enjoy anymore I guess, no bragging necessary.

 

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Thu, 06-16-2005 - 7:52pm
BS is right!
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Thu, 06-16-2005 - 8:17pm

I've heard that it's possible. My partner consistently has two, maybe three big gut-wrenching orgasms per session. I think that she's managed about 6 in one session before collapsing exhausted but it wouldn't surprise me if she were capable of more. Twenty or thirty would kill her so I would think that 20-30 for anyone would have to be gentle little orgasms sort-of all strung together. And if you're doing that it'd be difficult to decide whether they're discrete, independant orgasms or just sort of peaks and waves of several long orgasms.

I'm not sure why it's relevant. Everyone is different and certainly that many orgasms would have to be pretty rare. If your b/f is talking about it so much it is almost certainly about building up his ego and presenting himself as a great lover rather than the actual issue of how many orgasms she had.

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Registered: 03-09-2005
Thu, 06-16-2005 - 11:16pm
Next time just tell him, "Mine is bigger than yours" and leave the room. That ought to do it.