2008: More Sex Resolution!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
2008: More Sex Resolution!
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Wed, 12-19-2007 - 12:28pm
Studies have shown that sex holds many secrets to a healthy lifestyle, and articles like A healthy sex life: 10 reasons to make love and Was It Good for You? on iVillage have supported those studies. Even Fox News is getting in on the action with this report: Sex Your Way to Better Health: A Dozen Reasons Why You Should Have Sex Tonight (thanks, EM).



Print the articles and share them with your SO while you plan to make a New Year's Resolution to have more sex in 2008! Share your goals with us here ....




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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 12:47pm
Earlier this year, we made a goal to have sex at least 4 times a week. Over the past couple of months, we haven't been doing a very good job of meeting that goal.



For 2008, I would like to see that goal set to at least 3 times a week. Perhaps we'll do a better job of keeping it up (pun intended).




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Registered: 02-26-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 2:10pm

Same here. I think the rush of the holidays, and many birthdays, me working part time for the CHristmas season, etc. got in the way of us enjoying each other the last few months. With Valentines Day and our wedding anniversary in March to look forward to, my goal is to be more consistent in making time for each other (including having sex, but also just quality time/going out/etc.).


Wendy

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 2:17pm
Since the partner with the lower libido is the one who ends up controlling the amount of sex that takes place in most relationships, it would be pointless for me to make such a resolution.







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Registered: 12-03-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 2:22pm

Im in bostonsteve's boat, my resolution would be more of a hopeless wish than anything else, as it is entirely out of my control.

But since it is the wishing time of year, I wish for 2 times a week and a much more enthusiastic DW.


TGD
"Ability is of little account without opportunity"
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Registered: 10-30-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 3:56pm

I wish for my relationship to get back on track with amazing sex like before I had the baby and 4 times a week would be great, but right now even twice would be nice, sigh


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Registered: 01-07-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 4:01pm

*raises eyebrow*


"more sex" implies that there was some sex before.


My resolution will be for sex at all.

~ breath out...so I can breathe you in ~

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Registered: 07-12-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 4:25pm

My situation is simular to BostonSteve's...


I do not control my 'physical' sex life...


although, the thoughts are always with me...


My mind is my own...

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Registered: 09-10-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 4:43pm
Having recently resolved to be more patient in this area, I believe it would be an exercise in frustration for me to spell out a desired frequency goal.



Em





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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 5:00pm
Welcome to the board, parmaker. It's nice to see you here.




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Registered: 10-15-2006
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 9:51pm

My own resolution is also dependant upon DH's ability to cooperate.


In this I would so love it if he would work with me on frequency.


I would also like to devote some time to adding some creativity.

Mrs P

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