26 and a virgin
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26 and a virgin
| Wed, 11-07-2007 - 12:07am |
So I have begun a new relationship with someone I really enjoy. We had a sexual encounter this past weekend, he gave me oral, and the topic of sex was breeched, but I deigned to get away due to house guests at home. The next day I felt I had to tell him the truth, that I was a virgin, and the reason for my abrupt departure. I have no moral reasoning for being a virgin, I am just picky and have never had the right opportunities to indulge. His reaction was good enough, but now I am worried about future encounters, and how I am supposed to handle them. I have not had a lot of experience with men in general. I feel completely like I am back in high school because of my lack of experience. I feel that I am fairly knowledgeable without the practice of having another person there to do the work for me. I just am hoping to get some intelligent responses to see what other people think about this situation. What kinds of things I might be able to do to loosen up (literally as well as emotionally)? Any suggestions on how to talk to him about this sexual inexperience without sounding like an ass? I have good self esteem in just about every other aspect of my life, but because of my age I feel that it is wrong to still be so completely inexperienced and therefore have some esteem issues. HELP

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