3some question?

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Registered: 01-18-2004
3some question?
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Mon, 08-09-2004 - 11:01am
My friends and I were discussing 3somes. Lots of thoughts thrown around. One person said that it's an extension of flirtiness and insecurity. Thos who have them need validation and an ego stroking and require lots of attention from outside sources? I have to admit it was an interesting concept and something for me to ponder. thoughts?


Edited 8/9/2004 11:06 am ET ET by exhibityme
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Registered: 01-11-2004
Mon, 08-09-2004 - 12:13pm
Hi: From the Herpes Board, a couple tried a FMF 3-some. The couple was STD free PRIOR; but, the woman (invited) infected BOTH partners of the couple. Basically, YOU MUST know your potential sexual 3-some partner. Mac

 

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Mon, 08-09-2004 - 5:31pm
>>Thos who have them need validation and an ego stroking and require lots of attention from outside sources?<<

I don't know about validation but I believe that a large part of the appeal of a MFF threesome to a man is to have two women 'available' to him. Vice versa, there must be a somewhat similar appeal to a woman in a MMF situation.

I don't think that it is easy to pin down the reasons that people have and enjoy threesomes in an 18 word sentence. I think that is more complicated than that, and that different people do it and enjoy it for slightly different reasons.

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Registered: 07-28-2004
Tue, 08-10-2004 - 3:45pm
I don't think that anyone can make a generalization about why people have threesomes.

I think that some think of it as an easy way to be with another woman. I know that my interest isn't so much as to having a threesome but experiencing bi-sexual things with another woman.

Plus a lot of it is just the fact that it is considered so taboo. Taboo things are normally a real turn on to people. even if they odn't want to admit it.