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| Thu, 06-10-2004 - 10:57pm |
A few years ago my husband brought up the idea of 3some with another girl. Although I was intrigued by the idea of it, I was hesitant and very nervous. Last year for Christmas I figured..WHY NOT. My husband never had any interest to have sex with these girls, he was just interested in sensual and erotic experience of the 3some (kissing, touching, etc...) I felt very comfortable and at ease and so we began exploring our options.
We started out by going to Strip Clubs and he would buy a lap dance for me. One thing led to another and we ended up in a private room with a stripper, making out. The following week we had an amazing experience with an escort.
As the months went by, this suddenly became the sexual fantacy that can now be fullfilled whenenever we wish. Unfortunatley, I was starting to feel very uncomfortable with the idea. My husband was very absorbed in it and he was trying to find a girl for us. He also asked me to talk these girls and see if we would get along. This was so uncomfortable for me.
For some strange reason I was begining to feel less sure of myself and not at all confident. Today, my husband told me that he would like to have a 3some again and I don't know what to do. I am not sure if this is good for a marriage. If anyone has similiar experiences that they can share, I would greatly appreciate it.

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Edited 6/16/2004 4:59 pm ET ET by sweetbutterfly36
Risk assesment. It's not worth the risk for a cheap thrill. You have said yourself, it's only sex. Our marriage is more than that. It's a loving relationship, friendship, support, companionship, and a million other things all rolled into one. A threesome deosn't compare. When we discussed the two, it was an easy choice. Our marriage came before the thrill. I don't make the judgment that your relationship is worthless because you two share your bodies outside of it, so why say others are just jealous or aren't open minded? I think that is a snap judgement. And to me, I think it makes you sound like you feel superior and like you are more sexually open minded. When in reality, your tastes are just *different*.
Leticia
Edited 6/17/2004 10:15 am ET ET by sweetbutterfly36
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