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4 sex websites?
| Thu, 05-05-2005 - 6:24pm |
I've been wondering if anybody else has used an adult website to find "booty calls".
I've done it myself a couple of times over the past two years and with fair success. Still friends with some of them. Always decent fellas and practice safe sex. However, I wonder if I'm not just keeping "emotionally safe" by just finding a "friend with benefits when it suits me". i've been single 5 years and have not had a steady relationship yet. painful divorce with 3 kids; two teens and a baby left behind. so the website has worked because i didn't have a lot of time for a relationship. but now i feel like i'm ready for more. has any other single gals, notably single moms, done the same thing?? or am i just a sex-crazed lusty redhead??
I've done it myself a couple of times over the past two years and with fair success. Still friends with some of them. Always decent fellas and practice safe sex. However, I wonder if I'm not just keeping "emotionally safe" by just finding a "friend with benefits when it suits me". i've been single 5 years and have not had a steady relationship yet. painful divorce with 3 kids; two teens and a baby left behind. so the website has worked because i didn't have a lot of time for a relationship. but now i feel like i'm ready for more. has any other single gals, notably single moms, done the same thing?? or am i just a sex-crazed lusty redhead??

"Sex crazed?" No, you just sound like a normal, healthy woman who's a bit leery of getting involved again. Can't say that I blame you either.
I never did the FWB thing myself since I've been married for a long time.
However, IF it serves your needs for now, then I see no harm in it but I would suggest taking the next serious relationship very slowly, for your sake, as well as for the children's.
Were you experiences good/feel safe with using those websites to meet people? I've looked at the sites and feel intimidated to use them.
I'm in a similar situation, too busy and overwhelmed raising kids as a single for a relationship right now but want to meet someone.
I think it can work, but took a lot of patience and icky e-mails to wade through to find suitable sex partners. I trust my gut too. I only met in public places initially and was not afraid to say "No thanks." or hear it back. If you have a strong ego, this will work. If you feel insecure and not so great about yourself, you could get hurt.
hope this helps. keep in touch, if you'd like.
It is HARD being a GOOD single Mom and working and trying to even date. Kids come first but I tell ya, I thought I would BUST if I didn't get laid soon!