5 minutes??

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Registered: 08-28-2005
5 minutes??
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Mon, 07-10-2006 - 9:55am
I have been dating this guy for a little over a month. We had sex for the first time together sat night and he only lasted 5 mins.I was just getting started and he apologized and said he usually last longer. Is that sometimes normal that when a guy is with someone new for the first time he does not last long. On sat we fooled around for a couple of hours before sex. The next time together will he last longer.
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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: gal_jen1234
Mon, 07-10-2006 - 10:26am

Sex for the first time with ANYONE is never going to be that great! Will he last longer next time? Maybe, maybe not. Maybe that's as long as he ever lasts, even though he apologized, and said it wasn't normally like that.

Also, 5 minutes isn't bad for intercourse.....as long as you've had pleny of foreplay before you get to intercourse. Sex isn't about an hour of intercourse for most people...it's about an hour of foreplay, followed by intercourse. If a woman has enough foreplay, including oral and manual clitoral stimulation, five minutes of intercourse is fine. Make sure you get that foreplay, which will also slow him down....and you should both be happy.

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Registered: 08-12-2002
In reply to: gal_jen1234
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 5:55pm

Maybe he was just nervous or excited.