69 help!!!

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Registered: 05-04-2004
69 help!!!
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Fri, 07-09-2004 - 4:49pm
hey everyone!!!

my boyfriend and I are excited (!!!) to try the 69 position. Neither of us have tried it before. I have heard horror stories from friends of mine talking about awkward positioning, etc. My question is - what positions work for you? Like should we lay side-to-side? Should i be laying on top of him? ANY ADVICE is welcome. There are probably answers to questions that I havent even thought of asking!! Thank you!!

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Registered: 05-21-2004
In reply to: ruledbynone
Fri, 07-09-2004 - 5:06pm
NUMBER 1-- BE ON TOP!! if the guy's on top you can feel like you're being choked!! the first time i ever did it i was on the bottom and hated it! but i LOVE being on top...his hands are free to roam to all your other goodies and if you need a breather, just pick your head up!!!

go slow and ENJOY!

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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: ruledbynone
Fri, 07-09-2004 - 5:14pm
I like the 69 position best when I'm on top of my husband with my vagina up towards his head. That way, I can get his penis in my mouth just right. He can also stop and finger me and play with me anally, then go back to vaginal oral on me. I can teasingly pull away from his mouth so he has to grab my hips and bring me back to his mouth. Of course I get little spankings for doing that, but that's all part of it.

I find the 69 position to be nice, but not the best position for oral sex. I like when he is concentrating on me only and vice versa, not so much at the same time. All depends what we're doing though.

No matter what way you decide to do it, it will feel great! And you will know what exact position you like it the best from practicing!

Practice makes perfect! Have fun!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: ruledbynone
Fri, 07-09-2004 - 5:49pm
69 is fun as foreplay but as a means to an end...forget it. It's WAY too distracting to give pleasure as you're receiving it. So, neither of you will get or give great oral stimulation. And it will get uncomfortable for one of you very quickly.

Either of you on top will work better than side to side since he'll have to deal with that top leg of yours. It's arousing to warm things up before moving onto intercourse so try it and have fun.


Edited 7/9/2004 5:52 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Registered: 10-09-2003
In reply to: ruledbynone
Fri, 07-09-2004 - 6:43pm
Can you rub your stomach and pat your head at the same time? tee hee I agree with Kat, that it's fun to do and the concept is very erotic(giving and receiving), but in reality it's hard to do both at the same time(at least to orgasm).
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Registered: 02-21-2004
In reply to: ruledbynone
Fri, 07-09-2004 - 11:49pm
I'd start by laying side by side, or what-ever is initially comfortable. You'll find you'll start moving around, and one of you will want to try some exploring that will cause the other to go into a different possition. Might take a half dozen sessions, but you'll start finding a favorite possition, or possitions.Have fun.
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Registered: 07-05-2004
In reply to: ruledbynone
Sat, 07-10-2004 - 12:50am
i agree, sid-by-side is awkward. i like being on top, b/c like it was said before, he can play with you however he wants to and you can tease him as well. it definetly takes getting used to. but its very enjoyable.

~Crystal~